In Her Own Words
About her
I’m looking for my playmate, lover, soulmate, and life partner to feel safe and secure with and have a fun, intimate, committed relationship. A man with a young heart and an old soul that I can take pride in and be wild about for the rest of my life. Let's get to know each other.
To know me is to discover that I'm romantic, kind-hearted, sensual, forthright, elegant, courageous, fun-loving, discerning, playful, eclectic, pragmatic, affectionate, a lifelong learner, passionate, and winsome.
I love life, I love to laugh, and I don't take myself too seriously. I support and show up for those close to me, and I practice gratitude, forgiveness, integrity, compassion, respect, and improving the world as much as I can.
I'm passionate about finding the love of my life, sharing quality time together, new experiences and adventures, travelling near and far, learning and exploring life to its fullest, being healthy… physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, playfulness and laughter, cultural heritage, music of all genres, luxuriating in moving bodies of waters, staying fit with swimming and meandering walks, crime novels, taking the train whenever I can, art and landscape architecture, the history of ordinary things, sitting on the beach at dusk, a quiet romantic candlelit dinner, beauty in all its forms, bad jokes, gorgeous lingerie, physical and emotional intimacy, and the belief in the kind of love that lasts forever.
I’m charmed by a secure, masculine, intelligent man with a beautiful mind. You will be my hero if you are loving, emotionally available, kind, a good communicator, trustworthy, a lifelong learner, affectionate, sensual, playful and fun, appreciative of life, dedicated, addiction-free, possess self-awareness, and live with integrity.
About her ideal match
You are accomplished in life and financially secure, so we can afford to play at the same level, including living a comfortable lifestyle and enjoying the simple and finer things in life. Bonus points if you have a wonderful smile, a wry sense of humor, a love of travel, and a generosity of spirit. Let's create beautiful memories together.
You are a man who has space for me in his heart and in his arms. I will admire that you go after your goals and find space to balance relationship, play, work, and personal time. You know how to give and receive love, and you value monogamy. You are motivated to stay physically, spiritually, and mentally healthy so we can spend many happy, quality years together.
I'll take pleasure in how we make each other feel so loved, supported, and adored in every way. Our life together will be drama-free, passionate, respectful, peaceful, protective, effortless, patient, sweet, fun, accepting, romantic, adventurous, silly, sexy, tender, supportive, playful, forgiving, sensual, and loving. Will you join me?
Together, we will be guardians of each other's souls. We will feel safe and protected and help each other to be the best that we can be on this planet. I will be your biggest supporter, and I will always have your back. We will deeply care for each other, treat each other as equals, learn from each other, and love each other unconditionally. We will keep things fun and fill our little world with big dreams and lots of laughter. If this is your dream as much as mine, let's dream this together.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Colchester, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Denmark; Finland; France; Ireland; Liechtenstein; Luxembourg; Monaco; Netherlands; Norway; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Leo | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Sensible; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Soap operas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; The arts; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Bowling; Boxing; Chess; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Rock climbing; Rowing; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
