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Online: Yesterday

Modified: 21 September 2017

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Fareham (Wickham), Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
60
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district PO17 (Fareham)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
50 - 63
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 11" (149cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasionally; Regularly
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

If you are looking for that elusive thing - the sensitive, caring, good listener who actually likes shopping but is, nonetheless, all man - then here I am. Of course whilst I already know that I am these things (and more) you don't - but we will have to chat for you to find out, so why not get in touch!
I am fed up with being independent - but I am not looking for someone to be dependent on!
My musical tastes cover everything - I listen to it and make a decision! ABBA to Zappa with everything in between including World Music
Honestly all I want is to be happy - and being with someone that I can make happy would go a long way to making that happen for me too!
I have no secrets and will answer any question you throw at me - communication is the key to a good relationship
Motorbiking generally is a blast - especially in France (where I have two houses, both in need of considerable TLC!)
Museums and Art galleries and Flea markets - love 'em!
I do a lot of work for a local children's charity - but do property development consulting now to put bread (and other nice food) on the table
I want to learn to dance - preferably Tango (I have a friend who does it and it looks awesome!). A partner to learn with would be great.
Have been single for about 16 years. I brought up my two boys (they are around 30 now - how did that happen!) - which was brilliant!
I am honest, caring, loving and laid back - and I am looking for a partner to ride off into the sunset with (maybe in France!), so I am here to actually meet someone and not endlessly chat.
Please get in touch - I have nothing to hide and I am, as they say, worth it!
By the way I usually grow the whole beard back to allow me not to have to wear a false one during the Xmas seasonal job (no prizes for guessing what that is!). Currently I have a goatee
I am serious about losing weight - over 2 stone in 3 months - and getting fit too!

About his ideal match

A slim(ish), pretty(ish) lady who enjoys being pampered, emotionally and otherwise - but who recognises that my children will always come first (as I would for hers if she has them).
A desire to travel (especially on the back of a motorbike) and an interest in art, music and the like is preferred!
Unpredictable random acts of silliness are actively encouraged!

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More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I have a goatee
Body hair:
Average
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Short
Body art:
A tattoo or two
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Blue
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Badminton; Body building; Cricket; Motorsport; Rugby; Squash; Swimming
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read books regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power; Wealth
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
Other
Politics:
Green
Retirement plans:
Backpacking around the globe
Honesty:
Extremely