In Her Own Words
About her
I work with language, and it shapes the way I move through the world – attentive to nuance, tone, silence. I love cities: their cafés, museums, late dinners, and unexpected conversations. I also enjoy escaping them – a train ride, a walk in the hills, the quiet of a kitchen at dusk.
Classical music, a glass of good wine, and a well-set table make me feel at home. I have a taste for the elegant and the essential.
I’m not in a hurry, but I’m not vague either. I’m looking for something thoughtful, with its own rhythm. A connection that makes sense, and makes sparks.
About her ideal match
He’s sharp, curious, and grounded. He prefers a concert hall to a nightclub, a long dinner to small talk. He enjoys food, ideas, cities, and the stories behind things.
He’s someone who knows how to be present – not performative, not distracted. At ease in a gallery or under a tree.
I’m drawn to a man who’s solid in every sense – someone who’s grown into himself, not just aged into it. A man with presence, not noise; strength, not show.
If that sounds like you, I’d be glad to meet – and curious to see what might happen next.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Italy | |
Location: |
Milan (Milano), Lombardia, Italy | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Ask me later | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Italian | |
Other languages: |
English; French; German; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Italian; Spanish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV programmes: |
Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Walking; Yoga |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |