In His Own Words
About him
I'm intelligent, honest, friendly (I've been told I'm very easy to converse with, one-to-one), interesting, tolerant, extremely easy going (unless I really feel that I'm being put into a situation which will make me feel too uncomfortable), loyal, committed, reliable, trustworthy, with GSH, who can also be quite shy at times. In a group, I tend to be quiet. I like listening to music, reading, nice food & drink, eating out, visiting places, cinema, DVDs & watching some sport - snooker, tennis, golf, test cricket etc. I don't like clubs/partying etc. I live alone in a house which I own & am early-retired. I'm a non-driver.
I'm a man who'd never deliberately hurt somebody & I listen carefully to understand a woman's needs & wants. If men were pieces of chocolate ready for a woman to select, I'd be one with a soft centre.
I'd always want to be open & discuss things fully with a woman in a shared partnership. But I’m a naturally deferential man & she'd generally have the final say. I’m also not the most confident & can suffer from social & mental anxiety/insecurity. I sometimes need strong reassurance about how things are & will be. I can’t help how I am & it’s never going to radically change. I won't apologise for it, nor for being a man seeking a more dominant female partner. Though I’m not submissive & don’t want to be bullied or taken advantage of (I would push back if I really wasn’t happy with something), I’m happy to let a woman take control with strength & care. The right woman for me would see my deference as one part of my overall quality to her as a man.
I've a phobia about cats & dogs. Therefore, unfortunately somebody with any of those as pets, isn't going to be suitable. But I'm a fairly emotionally strong, well-balanced & (assuming a stable mental condition) rational person. Although I'll certainly listen to my heart, I'm more naturally 'ruled' by my head. I'm very reserved emotionally, an introvert & quite a deep thinker. My general outlook on life mainly leans towards moderate/pragmatism.
About his ideal match
A preferably quite socially liberal woman, but perhaps culturally more old-fashioned. Committed & with enough time to devote towards meeting. Sharing some of my interests (especially music) & might want to introduce me to some of hers. Physically, perhaps a tall woman.
In terms of the dynamics of a relationship, a shared partnership, both of us working together, but IMPORTANTLY with the woman taking the lead. Someone with quite dominant presence. I’m best suited to a capable woman, who generally knows what's what, & likes to be in control & taking charge. An arranger, organiser & planner. She's not happy if she doesn't have control. I’m not saying she’d walk all over or take advantage of me, but I’m naturally most comfortable being led & advised. If there's a decision to make, then she'll tell me what she thinks we should do & I'll broadly follow. We’ll both want to get on with it & although there’ll certainly be discussions, she'll make the final decision & any debating won’t likely take too long. Qualities I find most attractive in a woman are assertiveness, decisiveness & confidence, as well as being feminine, caring, warm & affectionate. If she can give good hugs, then that'll be a bonus! Maybe she'd be more of a realist than an idealist.
Being rather shy & suffering from social anxiety, I need a strong, assured & understanding woman in this respect, who'll make me feel at ease & take more responsibility in matters such as communication. Someone who won't make me do things which are obviously going to make me feel too uncomfortable, or I'm incapable of.
There's a lot of interesting depth within me for a suitable woman to explore, & I'm sure she'd find that in my own quiet & very loyal way, there's much that could make her happy. That's what I'd give to her from me. I'll do my bit & put as much commitment into the relationship as her.
Ideally somebody living in or around the Bristol area.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bristol, Bristol, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district BS7 (Bristol) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bowling; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Motorsport; Snooker; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |