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55 – Alton (Bordon), Hampshire, England

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Raison_detre_2026

55 – Alton (Bordon), Hampshire, England

Intelligent, kind and forever love seeking female

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Online: Friday

Updated: 23 December 2025

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In Her Own Words

About her

Hello....thanks for stopping by to view my profile. I have a wealth of life experience and yet the most important thing I have learned in my life is

Kindness.....be kind...treat others as you wish to be treated.

I'm generous, affectionate, warm, friendly and fun to be around. I have time for you, this is really important as you guys are too busy!! Think about it...a serious relationship requires your time....one evening during the week plus one day every weekend at the very minimum....do you have time to date?

I know what I want....a loving, attentive, good and faithful man....who will prioritise me over all others unless there is an emergency and we agree to have every other weekend for other family friend activities.
Hot hot hot communication?!! And I don't mean sexy texting....but are you prepared to check on me in the mornings and at the end of every day?

I'm a psychologist, ex runway model, mother, sister, daughter, ex wife and friend. I'm seeking to become someone's girlfriend and ideally in a few years....something meaningful....togetherness.

You are ideally over 5'10, preferably over 6 foot, and you are kind, generous and love a curvy DD woman. You are well educated, culturally aware, travelled, open-minded, experienced but not a bragger...you are a father. I'm not interested in how many countries you've visited....I've worked for two Kings, so nothing impresses me except kindness, great communication, laughing and happy times getting to know one another. I love history, the Tudors, architecture, stately homes, theatre, restaurants, coffee shops and messing about on boats and boat holidays. I love sunbathing, kissing endlessly and basically 'being in love ' with one man for the rest of my life.
Thank you and best of luck finding love.

About her ideal match

Please read above....
Integrity, kindness, purpose, knowing what you want and what you don't want is key.
You need to have time to date....this is not a hook up site or escort site, so please don't treat me like this.
Be unique, be a gentleman and remember what your mother taught you.
Xx

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Alton (Bordon), Hampshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
55
Star sign:
Taurus
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
A long-term relationship
Have children:
Ask me later
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Christian / Catholic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district GU35 (Bordon)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
51 - 71
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
My swimming trunks / bikini
Favourite colour:
White
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Visiting a gallery
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
Movie preferences:
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Reading; Voluntary work; Writing books
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Archery; Body building; Chess; Dance; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Martial arts; Polo; Running; Sailing; Shooting; Snooker; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Fine Dining; French; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a week
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Once a month
Dream home:
In the mountains
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious
Honesty:
Very