In His Own Words
About him
I’m an easygoing and (I believe) affable chap with a most fulfilling life. I’ve attained professional success and satisfaction in my field. I have the good fortune to make a living with words, which I relish. And I have the satisfaction of fatherhood, with two grown daughters I largely brought up on my own, and of close friendships. My main extracurricular enthusiasm is the arts: literature, the visual arts, and the performing arts, especially music and opera. It will sound a cliche, but it would be a more than a pleasure to share these things with a special person.
About his ideal match
Prescriptivism is always liable to be confounded in practice. But I would like to meet someone with intelligence, independence, aesthetic enthusiasm and intellectual curiosity, and with whom the tributaries of conversation would never run dry. It’s not an ambitious goal. There are lots of people in the world, and I only want one.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lambeth, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SW4 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
49 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Investing; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; German; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |




