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Modified: 26 April 2017

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southampton (Portswood), Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
56
Star sign:
Gemini
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Black
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Legal
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German; Greek; Russian; Spanish
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Europe; North America; Australasia
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district SO17 (Southampton)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
38 - 63
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Any
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English; French; German; Greek; Italian; Spanish
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Islamic; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I'm easygoing, with a dry sense of humour, a passion for classical music and outdoor pursuits (not necessarily in that order or even at the same time) and a pretty good line in self-deprecation. Having said that, I'm not everyone's cup of tea: for those who are familiar with Myers-Briggs Type Indicators, I'm INTJ (during the week, but much less so evenings and weekends!)

I'm a big fan of the proverbial Hewlett-Packard school of marketing (sushi = cold, dead fish), so this will be short and factual (as opposed to florid and a complete work of fiction). Shared values and interests are good preliminary indicators of compatibility, so I have ticked as many of the questions as I can; I have also compiled a little "shared-values" quiz below. If I have marked you as a Favourite, I would love to hear your responses to the quiz.

About his ideal match

Someone who is intelligent, educated and shares my values and interests. You will probably have lived abroad and will be acquainted with other cultures and other languages. An appreciation of classical music is a must; if, on top of all that, you are an accomplished lawn tennis player and/or rider and can overlook/tolerate my being INTJ: truly, my cup runneth over!

QUIZ

1. You chance upon a 20 note in the gutter. Do you:
a) leave it
b) keep it: after all, finders keepers
c) hand it in to the local police station
d) assume the owner is untraceable and give the 20 to charity
e) spend the 20 on Lottery tickets with the intention of giving the first 20 of any winnings to charity?

2. You're buying a bar of chocolate from a vending machine which delivers two bars by mistake. Do you:
a) take the extra bar as well - if you don't, someone else will
b) leave the extra bar
c) take the extra bar but make an online donation to charity?

3. You find out that a close friend and trusted colleague has been siphoning off company funds. Do you:
a) do nothing - it's the auditors' job to sniff out irregularities
b) tip off the auditors anonymously
c) confront your friend and get him/her to repay the money on the understanding that the matter will end there
d) grass up your friend
e) keep mum in return for a cut of the proceeds?

4. As above, save that it's your boss who is doing the siphoning.

5. You find out that your best friend's partner had a brief affair which is now over for good. Do you:
a) say nothing to your friend - after all, the affair is over and what the ear doesn't hear, the heart doesn't grieve over
b) tell your friend - s/he has a right to know that his/her partner has been unfaithful
c) give your friend's partner the option of coming clean about the affair (or else you'll spill the beans)
d) tell your friend's partner that, in return for your silence, you're taking over where the affair left off?

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Dry
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Valued qualities:
Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Hair style:
Short
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Cuisine:
Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; R&B / Soul; Rock
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Nature/Wildlife
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi
Sports:
Boxing; Chess; Cycling; Fencing; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Polo; Rugby; Skiing; Squash; Table Tennis; Tennis
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm online on weekdays only
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Living in the country