In Her Own Words
About her
I am a sensitive, loyal, giving friend. My close friendships have always been with people who are drawn to all that is good and generative but who have lots of wicked spontaneous moments and hugely non-pc senses of humour. I will amuse you. I will be interested in you, want to know more, want to challenge but support, live outside the box and desire unbridled happiness. I won't lie or cheat on you and expect the same. I live for good friends, great company, giggles and long running aching laughter, but also galloping over hedges, throwing oneself down black runs, tropical body surfing and dancing under a moonlit Bajan night to YMCA, Louis Armstrong, Nora Jones and Bob Marley. I have travelled widely, done my world walkabout, loved writing about it and have had my travelling giggles published. I care extremely well but expect to be appreciated. I seek a successful man with a quick mind, good sense of humour, a power drill and a desire to be with someone he's crazy about. Most importantly I hope you like what you do and do what you like - some of it with me.
About her ideal match
I want a scrumptious, tactile, wicked, successful man, who can work a dishwasher, be happy in morning dress or baggies, loves his sashimi as much as his tapas, is as happy uncorking bottles of LP pink as hosting cocktail parties for 60. Must be at home doing high social and 5 star as well divine simplicity like cuddling in front of the fire putting the world to rights, long hours snuggled in bed, long walks in the countryside or backpacking in Nepal. My perception of a great relationship is an equal partnership where each person and what they bring is valued, supported and treasured, so that communication which is the key is open and feedback honest yet supportive. One where we will talk to each other all the time about the good and the bad but each will listen and support the other in return. One where passion and spontaneity are treasured but time is invested in building strong foundations. One where we laugh, learn and grow together
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About her
Country of origin: |
Barbados | |
Location: |
Kensington & Chelsea (Fulham), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Backgammon; Bodyboarding; Cycling; Dance; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Polo; Rowing; Rugby; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Snorkeling; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
