In Her Own Words
About her
'Go on' said my friend Sue. 'Tell them how warm and genuine you are'.
'That just sounds like an unpretentious hot water bottle'.
'Well, you need to say something about your energy too, and how you're interested in all sorts of new ideas, and how much you love conversations and experiences that make you think differently and learn new stuff.'
'Gosh, then they'll think I'm earnest and serious'.
'Well, you mustn't miss out that you love laughing and dry humour. Maybe you should mention 'I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue' and all that Monty Python and Fawlty Towers stuff that makes you fall off your chair.'
''But do you think that might come across as frivolous? What about being emotionally aware, and how much connectiing to other people, and being authentic, matter to me?'
'Oh yes - and what a great friend you are too. And don't miss out your chocolate cake'.
'How about integrity, and interdependence and sharing and fun and glass-half-full and .....?'
'That'll do for now. You can tell them that when you meet in some lovely patisserie for tea,' said Sue.
So perhaps I will.
About her ideal match
He's genuine, unpretentious, and at ease with himself, and he has a degree of self-awareness. He's bright, kind, open-minded, and witty, and has no extreme political views. He's caring and warm, and probably well-educated and professional.
We connect, we're interdependent - neither dependent nor independent. We have respect for each other, we laugh and we cry together, we share, we're physically in tune and attracted to each other, and we learn from and with each other. We're each emotionally aware of the other, and we're intellectually in tune. We're best friends, and we listen to each other. There's definitely chemistry and we share values.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Barnet (E Finchley), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district N2 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
62 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Jewish |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Latin; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
French; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
