AlfrescoTango

50 – Southampton, Hampshire, England

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Online: Yesterday

Modified: 02 October 2017

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southampton, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
50
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district SO18 (Southampton)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
43 - 53
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Average; Athletic
Looks:
Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I think people should get to know me because I am a grounded, creative, individual with a passion for life and living. I enjoy meeting people, I am interested in how, what and where people are at in their life, I have a genuine curiosity about this and always intrigued.
I enjoy a healthy balance in my life and by this I mean coherence with work/profession and home; rest and play; taking risks and cautioning back; funny stuff and serious stuff; superficial chit-chat and deep meaningful insights - having balance and being balanced are important to me but not to the point that is rigid, this needs to be held lightly.
My zest for life keeps me very young. I have an appetite for learning new things from playing a new musical instrument to researching remote Himalayan cultures. I quite like to challenge myself periodically, taking on a new project or task, which may or may not work out the way I intended, but I like to have a go. I have an enthusiasm for transforming old into new - I was doing what Annie Sloan does with chalk paint 30 years ago!!
I have an eclectic taste in most areas of my life -
My music taste ranges from Van Morrison to Tom O'Dell, Kate Bush to Birdy, Steelers Wheel to The Killers. I love to dance, whether that be the Argentine Tango or rocking to ACDC's Highway to Hell in my kitchen!! I love the energy of dance and the effect on my body. I also like to stay fit through yoga, running, and walking my dog.

I have been single for some time, I was widowed several years ago and made the decision to raise my 2 children on my own. Being widowed young made me a stronger person, I was catapulted into facing and understanding pain and loss, and experience the strength and growth that comes from tragedy. I have given myself space and time to come to terms with my lot and I feel ready to branch out into seeing what else is out there and look forward to meeting like minded individuals.

About her ideal match

My ideal match should complement everything I said above ...compatibility, chemistry, grounded, enthusiastic, genuine people need only apply.
If you have loads of unresolved baggage to work through then I am not for you, I am coming to this with a clean slate and I will sense it in return.
So, as in the words of Kahil Gibran when he speaks of relationship "No human relation gives one possession in another--every two souls are absolutely different. In friendship or in love, the two side by side raise hands together to find what one cannot reach alone."

I look forward to develop a relationship so that we can walk along side each other and reach above and beyond our individual capacity.

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More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Stable; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair style:
Medium; Straight; Curly; Wild
Body art:
Pierced ears; One piercing
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Green
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Latin; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Religious; Travel
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; Woodwork; Writing books
Sports:
Athletics; Boxing; Camping; Dance; Running; Tennis; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Current relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Power; Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic