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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Hitchin, Hertfordshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
53
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Changes Often
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Regularly
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United Kingdom
Gender:
Male
Age range:
45 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I don't want to date any of the men I work with, anyone who lives in our village, friends, friends' husbands, psychos etc, so I'm here.

I am very easy to please but hard to impress. I like simplicity in my food, my wine, my style, my music, my films, my books.....

I am straightforward but loyal and enthusiastic - sometimes like a puppy. I won't lick your face and my ears are normal but I will walk for hours in the woods with you and I'll be the best friend that I can.

I'm big on heart led decisions, and I dont like rules or routine much so for a (some would say) fairly bright girl with (some would say) a fairly good job, I can be unnervingly 'vital' at times and cool calm and considered most others. I trust my instincts so I'm mostly I'm happy to go with what the weather brings so long as it feels right at the time and especially if it makes me laugh.

I have two speeds - one annoyingly fast, the other annoyingly slow. I'm not at my best when I feel indifferent. I prefer content to structure and am deeply suspicious of people who are pompous about grammar (I confess to mild nausia around liberal sprinklings of exclamation marks.

I am feminine (they tell me) and sometimes even easy on the eye though I don't think it's my call to say how attractive I'll be to you. Am I well-read? I've read a lot. Am I well-travelled? I've travelled a lot. I can and will dance when merry. I work in the smoke and live in the countryside - best of both worlds...

I always paint my toenails, I'm relatively fit and I love riding and sailing. I do smoke but I dislike that I'm a smoker, know its silly and dangerous but I don't want to tell fibs about this. Would I give up?- almost certainly

I cant bear the gloomy fatalism of Thomas Hardy no matter how well he writes - I'd trade him for Terry Wogan any day of the week.

I can listen and watch people or things of beauty for hours; I have a lovely Newfoundland dog and one day, we'll live right by the sea again...

About her ideal match

I'm open to suggestions but here's a start:

1. You're great at things I'm not, when I'm feeling lost or bored you can do useful things like answer these relentless questions for me.

2. You aren't a pushover but you're pretty relaxed.

3. You're gorgeous, engaging and bright and can hold your own when presented with a spontaneous dinner with friends. You still have rythmn in those hips and something undefinable about you makes me come over all giddy.

4. You would help an old lady with her shopping and you don't assume young people are about to mug you.

5. You know what's going on in the world but you aren't obsessed with it.

6. You want to share your deepest thoughts but not straight away.

7. You have less shoes and more facial hair than me and you have nothing tie-died that you would wear (except with irony - irony is of course acceptable and even amusing)

8. You like the countryside and the sea, don't mind a bit of mud and you can make a fire (in the fireplace only please).

9. I'd really like it if you were very clever and living in C21st (this doesn't mean you are 'new-age') and I'm afraid I do have a passion for tall men.

10. You can count to more than 10 - ok then - up to 10 would be OK

10A. You are Zorro (who's counting?)

Disqualifying attributes:

1. You are dishonest

2. There is no evidence of your passion for life (especially if you appoint yourself as critic on other peoples attempts to do stuff)

3. You bang on obout price differences in supermarkets (we all like value darling but life must be bigger than this?)

4. Your favourite thing is to elevate yourself by making other people feel like poo

5. You don't spoon in bed (OK so this is for MUCH later on and not up for any debate now but it is non-negotiable)

6. You are off your face at every available opportunity or buy jossticks (sp?) regularly

7. Your Spiderman duvet cover features without irony in your seduction technique

8. Nope - no 8.

What Her Friends Say

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More about her

Personality traits
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Stable
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Hair style:
Short; Straight
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Orange
Favourite clothing:
My pyjamas
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent
Interests:
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Knitting; Music; Politics; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing
Sports:
Running; Swimming; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
Labour
Honesty:
Very