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Modified: Friday

Online: Yesterday

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Southampton, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
69
Star sign:
Capricorn
Height:
6' 2" (188cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Balding
Eye colour:
Green
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German; Spanish
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district SO17 (Southampton)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
56 - 61
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 3" (159cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I hope that I'm a nice guy .. someone who tries to be kind, generous and fair. I'm normal but not, I hope, too ordinary .. the sort of person who has lots of strengths and fewer weaknesses .. that's what I'd hope. And, if I weren't "kind" or "thoughtful" or I didn't have "integrity", I wouldn't be writing it up here!

I'm passionate about my friends and, most of all, my family. I am relaxed (which I think is a good thing) and sociable .. a vaguely academic type of sorts but I can generally be relied on to think like a grown up when necessary.

I'm curious about what makes people tick and what makes the world turn - people interest me and I can do "sitting in a café watching people" for hours! If 'likes' are important, they'd include fresh air, arty stuff, cinema, comedy, Berlin, theatre, sunshine & Joni Mitchell. If pinned down for a hobby, it would be travelling .. every time.

Most of all, I like being with people because I'm social, sociable and interested in other people. I like talking and "they" say that I'm a good listener which is way better face to face than any of the other options.

I tend to read quite a lot and I came across this years ago and it's always stuck with me. I just like the pictures it paints and Ray Carver, who wrote it, is a bit of a hero for me.

Cool summer nights.
Windows open.
Lamps burning.
Fruit in the bowl.
And your head on my shoulder.
These the happiest moments in the day.

Next to the early morning hours, of course.
And the time just before lunch.
And the afternoon, and early evening hours.
But I do love these summer nights.

Even more, I think, than those other times.
The work finished for the day.
And no one who can reach us now.
Or ever.

Well, if you've got this far and you're still reading, I'd like to think that there's something here that might persuade you to get in touch.

About his ideal match

Someone to share all sorts of stuff with. I've lots of people to do 'something' with ..... someone to do nothing with would be even better.

You'll have "baggage", which seems to be a favourite word on here, but I guess no one, me included, is where they are without .. depends how you define it. Compatibility is another important area, but it's more than about shared 'things that we do'. I believe that, when it's right, someone enhances our lives, covers the beige with glorious colour that gives a new perspective . I'm ok on my own but know l'm better with the right person. Does that make any sense?

Ideally, someone memorable - and I'll try really hard to be the same!

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair style:
Disappearing
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Green
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Self-help; Travel
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sport
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Cycling; Golf; Scuba diving; Snorkeling
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Extremely