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coolinventor

51 – Luton, Bedfordshire, England

Idealistic realist and activist looking for intelligent and outward-looking guy

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Luton, Bedfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
51
Star sign:
Gemini
Height:
5' 9" (175cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Transportation
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the United Kingdom
Gender:
Male
Age range:
30 - 50
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Black/African descent; Black/Caribbean descent
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Why should people get to know me? Well, there's more to me than meets the eye, I have very varied interests yet some interests run very deep. I'm the kind of person that tends to create things, whether it's writing or something physical and I tend to understand things at a fundamental level and in detail, not just superficially. Consequentially my views on some matters are not always what the general public thinks. I'm also a 'change the world' kind of person as much as finding ways to make the world work for me, and I tend to have several simultaneous projects - I think that's the Gemini bit - but I also make time for important people and especially when I'm in a relationship. People seem to come to me for advice on a wide range of stuff and I enjoy helping people get results they want, and I also appreciate having support from a partner for my projects. I've changed occupation from the one I qualified in (computing) and am doing a relaxing 'job' while working on other things that I intend to come to fruition sooner or later. I'm pretty robust and can cope with most situations, including some very interesting ones, but at the same time I tend to learn from my experiences and can laugh at myself as easily as I laugh with others at things. I have an adorable young son in a co-parenting relationship - ie, it's just about parenting, and I go to see him every two weeks. Really, I'm looking for a guy who takes an active interest in the wider world in general rather than just their own personal circumstances, and is looking for someone to share that interest with.

About his ideal match

My ideal match would be a guy who knows himself fairly well and is confident about the way he handles the world. Having some kind of moral concern for the well-being others is a pre-requisite but that doesn't mean they have to be an activist in the way I am. However, someone taking an intelligent and active interest in the world is important - sybaritic experiences are great to share and important to have from time to time and I want to share a lot more of them, but someone who just lives for that alone would not appeal to me . I like a guy who always has some kind of aspiration or goals to motivate him forwards or projects that he focusses his attention on. I like guys who are flexible and can handle a wide variety of different situations. In many circumstances in life I'm the one who sets the agenda, but quite an important factor that influences my attraction to someone is a degree of assertiveness or dominance in them, especially within our relationship. Someone with a sense of humour is important, and they don't have to erudite or eloquent, but coherent would be nice.

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Contentment; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Short; Straight; Well-behaved
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Seafood; Thai
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Business; Crime; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV programmes:
Cartoons; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Nature/Wildlife; News
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama
Interests:
Auto repair; Business news; Computer programming; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Badminton; Flying / Gliding; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Squash; Tennis
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I have to cook
Dining out:
I only eat out on special occasions
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Fish
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely