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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
55
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
6' 2" (188cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Balding
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Atheist

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district GL50 (Cheltenham)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
45 - 60
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No; Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I changed to the following after a number of replies and half conversations:

I have lived and learned through many situations and scenarios and find myself single, alone and yet not always lonely. I am happy with both noise and silence. I believe that I have a lot of love, life and laughter to share. For a potential life partner/ lover/ friend I have no secrets. I will be an open book. I do not believe I have the right to judge or to moralise. I passionately believe in free will and the right to live our lives as we see fit, observant of the laws and morals that we all live by. I am no fantasist nor a slave. That is not a paean to some sort of individualistic creed by the way, just a simple assertion that I will thoroughly respect your beliefs and ideas and merely accept the same in return.

For a potted life story just ask. It will range from... to......a little enlightenment. It will encompass marriage(s) not necessarily all unhappy through to a current independence, circumscribed only by context and circumstance.

What can I offer? Materially not a great deal in truth. I am not a pauper and survive having been ravished/ ravaged by the legal system and come out as a bona fide winner, but many thousands of pounds poorer. I work full time and pay my way. Emotionally I believe I can offer a great deal. Love, truth, understanding, compassion and humour for a start.

I love humour. Debate, music and above all reading and wanting to learn. I subscribe absolutely to the idea that the more I learn the less I know. I would love to travel even more and see things with an open eye.

What am I looking for? A friend. A savant? A teacher, a co- conspirator. One who has love to share and is willing to be (whisper it gently) adored. No more or less.

About his ideal match

Ideally intelligent with a sense of humour and wit would be appreciated; beauty is of course subjective and usually found when the eyes shine and the smile is more common than the frown. I'm old enough to appreciate smiles and a genuine personality.

Ahh and you're hilarious clever honest happy solvent witty thoughtful friendly immature and mature dopey sharp dippy lippy with a penchant for smiles and hugs. That'll do nicely.

More? I'm an atheist, Evertonian, cricket loving humanist reader, writer thinker and friend. I will ask little and demand even less. So if you are confident (or shy) but would be amused by the idea of a man who actually.... listens and cares message me

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
None / not applicable
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Hair style:
Disappearing
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Blue
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rock
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Non-fiction
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sport
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; War
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
American Football; Athletics; Cricket; Dance; Football (Soccer); Golf; Rowing; Rugby; Tennis
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I tend to watch sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited