In Her Own Words
About her
I am independent and more reserved than outgoing but enjoy live music pubs cinema and comedy. I am pretty homely and threw myself into gardening over lockdown. I have been Granada and Killarney this year. Both sensational. Finally got to Japan which had to be cancelled! .
I think differences can be healthy for a relationship maybe more than similarities. I love going to gigs and making the most of London. I don't mind going on my own sometimes it's preferable. I went to Stone Valley Festival on the jubilee weekend and ticked Cast and Stiff Little Fingers off the list. It was a great time.
Widowed since 2007 lots of wonderful families and friends got me through. But my youngest child is 21 now and I have no ties so I'm looking to find someone to treasure me again!
I qualified as a solicitor in between travel and kids. I enjoy working in the public sector, (most of the time) I make the best of things and keep moving forward gently. I work four days flexibly which is great for me.
I'm warm and caring, smart and funny. I'm happy mooching, people watching, reading. It's about the journey, especially on trains 🌞
About her ideal match
Someone kind and funny with a relaxed and easy going attitude to life. Someone prepared to wait or work for things worth having. (And now has them!) An interest in music, art, history and architecture
Definately looking for an equal so some strength of character and some healthy cynicism.
Tolerance, humour and joy in small things.
I like confident men but not flashy. Substance and form.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Harrow, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HA2 (Harrow) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Caustic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Philosophical; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Pottery; The arts |
Sports: |
Badminton; Birdwatching; Ice Skating; Skiing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |