In Her Own Words
About her
I've always been optimistic and enthusiastic and decided I should take the plunge by putting my profile out there, however, I don't know what to expect, hopefully any surprises will be pleasant. I have a great family and close friends, but miss the spark in my life that comes from a healthy relationship with a man who makes me look forward to seeing him again, even if he's only gone to get a pint of milk!
Essential is being on the same wavelength, sharing similar values and being able to enjoy your own interests as well as encouraging the other to pursue theirs.
Also fundamental is the chemistry thing, if that isn't in the equation then there is little point, hope that doesn't seem too black and white, but if the pheromones don't fizz a little?.........
About her ideal match
I enjoy the company of someone who is self-confident without being arrogant. Who is comfortable in their skin and ready to have adventures fairly regularly. Hopefully someone who hasn't been a stranger to adventure until now either. Love the company of people who have taken a few risks and maybe even still want to......Unlikely to have beaten the average path to get to today.
All that said - I have a conventional side, and am not looking for a bungee-jumping, arctic trekker. I enjoy the outdoors, specially travelling, walking and sailing. I also love cosiness and do not avoid the normal 'reality' sides of life on a day to day basis. These would be qualities I would admire in a boyfriend.
I love to share experiences and am as happy up to my elbows in mud or wallpaper paste as much as I am sitting in a nice restaurant choosing a good bottle of red. Merrily get scruffy, but do love getting 'dressed up'.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bangor, Down, Northern Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
65 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
44 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Romance; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Painting; Reading; Sewing; The arts |
Sports: |
Cycling; Sailing; Skiing; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |