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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Portsmouth, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star sign:
Aquarius
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district PO5 (Southsea)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
40 - 49
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

Growing up in Africa,and being essentially a simple soul (but who has lived a complex life) I used to think that i would meet someone who would be my soulmate-and the love of my life-and my best friend-and my lover-and then my wife and partner-and the mother of our children-and that it would be ever thus...

And I met someone who was my wife and the mother of our wonderful children...and who I believed was the love of my life

And I met someone else who is still my best friend...despite being married to someone else

And then 2 years ago,unexpectedly, and finally...I met the person I thought was my soulmate,but alas she just had a personality disorder that love made me blind too

And in between all of them there have been too few lovers,if I am honest

And so, at 55 with probably half of my life lived...(2/3 if the Bible is to be believed!)...I wonder now who I will meet....a friend...a good friend...my best friend...hopefully a lover...but will it be fear of old age or loneliness that drives her to me...or is there actually any chance that my soulmate is still out there somewhere?

Although I work in healthcare,I regard myself as a writer...I have sold a script and a book and I write every day...in fact I blog a lot....boerewors medicine even.

PS
If you don't like rugby players,you will probably not like me.
If you don't like honesty,look away now.
If commitment is a dirty word,please pass by.

I love kids & I would be surprised if I met someone who didn't have kids frankly.Please treat them with respect and put their happiness before your happiness.Your "wants' are simply not as important as their "needs",particularly if you introduce them to a new man every season.

I am just a middle aged man who has good and bad points.
Sometimes my knees work ;sometimes my ankles work;sometimes they all work together.

About his ideal match

I love strong women...women who help me complete myself...

I like a woman who will not let me settle for mediocrity...a woman with whose love and friendship I can be bold and discover as yet undreamed off happiness

I like feminine woman...who wear skirts and smile unexpectedly

I like women who are happy with their body and who probably wear pretty lingerie for themselves when they do the cleaning...PS...I'll help

I love the sense of completeness that an intelligent, articulate, funny, warm, smart, and frankly pushy woman can add to my life.

Looking for someone who has a good sense of "who you are" and "what you stand for"....
...ideally you should be a professional person/self employed or an artist who is willing to pursue your dream to the exclusion of all else.... must care about abstract issues like truth and justice....must be willing to eat lemon meringue pie with me....must be able and willing to laugh.....must like shopping....must want to be with me here and now ...and it would help if your hair smelt of wild fruit...oh lordy lordy...

I would like someone who is interested in a variety of activities and interested in trying out new things without "blinkers" or stuck ideas of how life should be. Unconventional is ok so long as you are enjoying yourself and can show me new things that I would enjoy too!

Finally..I believe that its not enough to just be a consumer;you also have to contribute.

I have delivered babies
I make a mean "eggs royale"
I know how to iron
I have built houses with Jimmy Carter
I know how to make sushi...I hate sushi BTW...I learned to make it because a woman I loved liked it...that's how silly I can be
I am a reiki practitioner
I sing (badly) in the shower
I like sitting in a train in the winter...reading...thinking...about you...out there somewhere
I write
I am a tantric massage master
I miss my kids who live in SA with their mum
I like children

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More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Caustic
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Short
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Blue
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date activities:
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; News
Interests:
Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books
Sports:
Rugby; Weight training
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Animals:
I like them Well Done
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
Mansion with loads of servants
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement plans:
In a high roller's suite in Las Vegas
Honesty:
Extremely