In Her Own Words
About her
I like to think that I am fun to be with - I think my friends would say that I have a keen sense of humour, and that I am witty, fun, easy-going and intelligent. I am extremely gregarious and like to be with people. I'd much rather spend time doing things with other people than doing things on my own - whether it be sailing (or messing about in boats generally) or walking or riding bikes and visiting the pub, travelling, visiting galleries, going to concerts or the theatre...
Both my husband and father were of a military persuasion so have been lucky enough to travel the world and have lived in many foreign climes - life has been full and varied. It seems rather empty now although I see quite a lot of my children and grandchildren although they all have long flown the nest. I really enjoyed bringing them up but now I feel the need to branch out on my own - I can't just crash into their lives now that I am on my own. They all have their own lives to lead and are all busily hoeing their own rows successfully whilst busily presenting me with grandchildren now and then, which is great but not the be all and end all.
I am very keen on music from rock to classical, love cooking, eating, fine wines, travelling, reading, current affairs, history, theatre, Radio 4 and Classic FM and life in general. I am kind, caring, generous, tactile, loving and inquisitive and would just love to meet a similarly minded person with whom to share things - whether it be exciting adventures or just trying to keep up with the garden. I feel l still have so much to give and anyway being on one's own seems such a waste and rather brings to mind the Peggy Lee song 'Is that all there is?'! I suppose I'm just looking for a loving, easy-going chap ... "Is there anybody out there...?"
About her ideal match
I would like to meet someone who is kind, caring, loving, tactile, outgoing, amusing, fun to be with, intellectually challenging, witty and interested in the world about us. Someone who is keen to remain young, if only at heart, and with a good sense of humour. Someone who likes the outdoor life, sunny holidays, museums, art galleries, music and life! Keen to travel, seek new horizons, try new things. I would also like to meet someone who is truthful about himself and what life has thrown at him.
It would be just great to meet someone who shares some of my interests - but could also introduce me to those that I have missed out on. I miss the close companionship that being in a loving and caring relationship brings. Time spent on one's own seems such a waste if there is someone out there who is doing the same then it would be good to hear from them.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Salisbury, Wiltshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
79 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
70 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Reading; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Cricket; Cycling; Gymnastics; Horse Riding; Motorsport; Rock climbing; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |