In His Own Words
About him
Tall, athletic, emotionally mature, baggage free, faintly bohemian male, looking for tallish, slimmish, feminine lady, for friendship and hopefully more.
I've just sold my glamping site, as life is far too precious to spend most of it working. So it's time to buy somewhere beautiful, in UK/France/Italy, with lots of land and a lake/streams, and look after unwanted animals, or create a mindfulness retreat, whilst living sustainably? Or? I will do it on my own, but would much prefer to share, hence this marketing.
Many interests including helping people, the arts, cars, the great outdoors, having a few drinks, laughing/having fun!
Kind, confident, financially and emotionally secure (due to mindfulness), looking to share all of the good things in life.
Keen to avoid ladies who frequent karaoke bars, watch too much TV, believe that spiritual contentment comes through shoe shopping, and those that shriek. All others apart from those who are training to enter an eating contest. Quality not quantity every time.
I live alone, rattling around in a quite large country house, thinking that now I have time, some female company is a good idea! I love good food and wine, and like to cook, and equally enjoy being cooked for. I enjoy running, when it's over. Definitely enjoy the great outdoors, walking, tennis and cycling, weekends away, holidays, and loads of other things.
My conversations with my cat are getting too cerebral........please write soon and rescue me, and my cat.
Why don't you leave me a message? Go on, please - I've no idea how else we will meet, and this may work ...... friendship will be great, and maybe we will blow each other's hats off .... metaphorically speaking :). Or perhaps we'll just be good friends, and won't that be fine?
I am a pescetarian, so great if you are too, or better still a vegetarian, and you can stop me eating fish 😃
Admission time - my profile name is a misnomer - I am not by any stretch of the imagination a surfer, as mostly I fall off 😆
About his ideal match
Feminine, fairly confident, bright, open minded, relaxed. In touch with emotions, but not too needy.
A liking for good tea and coffee, champagne, wine and log fires will be fine! Enthusiasm for cultural stuff, maybe the odd game of tennis, walking, cycling, weekends away, holidays. Healthy lifestyle most of the time.
An awareness of / interest in mindfulness will be reassuring .... ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the temporary discomfort of becoming aware of your mental afflictions and learning to ignore them, and the discomfort of being ruled by them. So, that's a simple choice. Yes?
Couple of other thoughts - fox hunting enthusiasts / overly sensible / tense ladies are unlikely to give me that yessss feeling 😱
It will be great if you love Radiohead, but I won't hold my breath, as at least 99.8% of the world's population don't seem to. And Eminem was a pop/wordsmith genius, and very funny .... yes? Love of classical music too.
If our musical passions are not perfectly aligned, it's not quite the end of the world!
Politics? No interest. In my humble opinion, it's a game and we are the pieces they play with. We are insignificant, and think because we get to vote we live in a democracy? Nah, we are just fodder, with mainstream media feeding a constant diet of fear, lies, distraction, and division, to keep us controlled and compatible 🤨
Looking for a loving long term, zero politics relationship, in which we bring out the best in each other o.n.o. eg. if the sparks don't immediately fly, then friendship and companionship will be great, and perhaps we'll find the fireworks later?!
Write soon :) Please do it! I've no idea how else we'll meet ........ there is no plan B ... and I quite miss being in a close reciprocal relationship, and have a lot of love to give. And if you've got this far, my name is David.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Exeter, Devon, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
48 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
I don't have one |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
A gate-crasher |
Personality traits: |
Mild; Optimistic; Pessimistic; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Designer (I'm a slave to designer labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Gold |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
What glass? |
Hair style: |
Out of control |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have cool side burns |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body art: |
More piercings |
Date activities: |
Going out dancing |
Music preferences: |
Muzak |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons |
Movie frequency: |
Several times a week |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent |
Interests: |
Knitting; Sewing; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
A professional athlete |
Sports: |
Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fast food |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out 7 days a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Out of control |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I'll bring them on our first date |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Dream home: |
Mansion with loads of servants |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
In a high roller's suite in Las Vegas |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Quite |