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KAnd45

49 – Heathfield, East Sussex, England

Hard working, widowed father of two looking for a sunny companion to brighten up his day.

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Heathfield, East Sussex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
49
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Brown
Marital status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; A fling
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Spanish
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district TN5 (Wadhurst)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
28 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 10" (179cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I've been on 'Encounters' for a while now, met some nice women but unfortunately no lasting romance.

One female friend that I'd recently met said to me: 'You need to sell yourself more my dear. Compared to some men that I've met on this site you've got a lot going for you. You're honest, kind hearted and not bad looking'. As I'm a salesman I was surprised that I hadn't thought of that one! So here's a revamped profile.

A widower for 5 years I am in a good place right now. However, a year ago I realised that I needed the company of a good woman. It was the little things that I missed: cuddles on the sofa, sharing a meal, adult conversation, an activity partner, the things that you take for granted but miss terribly when your life partner is gone.

A single parent with two lovely children, family life is hectic but very rewarding. I work hard but have tried to strike a decent work/life balance. Since my partner's death I've changed a lot. I am certainly less selfish, more thoughtful and considerate.

My friend said that I'm not bad for 46. I've still got my own hair, I'm slim but athletic (I run and keep fit), have decent skin and I'm well groomed.

Pleasures are: country walks, chilling out in a cafe/pub with a good book or friends, and the cinema. I love movies, anything from Arthouse to the latest Disney! With that special someone I'd have a great excuse to eat out more and go dancing. Somehow these particular activities aren't so much fun on your own!

My education was good, graduating from Brighton University in 2000. I would therefore like to think of myself as intelligent, well read and articulate.

I would also describe myself as someone that loves life and is easily pleased by the simple things that it has to offer. I tend to think before speaking and my friends would say that I am a caring and gentle man who values friendships and is not afraid to show love and emotions.

Now if I have 'sold' myself to you, send me a message!

About his ideal match

A vacancy has arisen for a thoughtful, wholesome and kind woman to join an easy going optimist, who adores his children, loves life and is not afraid to work hard.

A partnership role that requires good communication skills, a relaxed attitude, the ability to work as a team, the confidence to express emotion, and the desire for a good evening out (a meal, movie or dance) but is also content to stay in.

You must have a thirst for life, get up and go (long distance running is optional!), the ability to smile at the world, and the experience necessary to make this role your own. The ability to enjoy a wide variety of activities is essential as is a romantic and loving personality. If you are happy spending time together both in quiet pursuits (country walks, going to an art gallery, sitting on a beach or by the fire) and letting your hair down on a night out this could be the role for you.

The rewards, alongside a highly competitive benefits package, include a rare degree of love, care and attention.

Initially a temporary role this could be a full-time/permanent position following completion of a satisfactory probationary period.

If interested, or for more information about this position please contact me.

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Short; Well-behaved
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Red
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai
Music preferences:
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Books:
Business; Fantasy; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Business news; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts
Sports:
Athletics; Bowling; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Running; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Triathlon; Walking; Weight training
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I have to cook
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
A regular competitor
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Get promoted
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited