In Her Own Words
About her
It's my birthday (29th).
A wise friend once said you don't need money to be happy. When I tried to protest he said "ok name the top 10 things that are guaranteed to make you happy". And as I thought about it I realised he was and is so very right. My top 10 cost little or no money at all... So as an insight into me... In no particular order, the things that make me smile and make my heart sing are:
1. A blistering hot and fragrant summer's evening, with a cool breeze blowing through my hair, sipping an ice cold glass of wine, sitting on my balcony waiting for that lovely twilight time when you're suspended between day and night
2. The smell of freshly ground coffee/fresh baked bead
3. The sound of daybreak birdsong, or of Autumn leaves or newly fallen snow crunching under my feet
4. The hushed, almost deafening silence and stillness that comes with that falling snow and the dazzling brightness of winter sunshine reflected in the snowflakes
5. The blood-orange red that fades to pink in a breathtaking sunset
6. Dogs. Any shape or size
7. The squeaky clean feeling you get when you shower after a sweaty workout
8. The delicious, cool, smooth feel of freshly laundered, high thread count sheets
9. Playing a favourite tune loudly in the car, singing at the top of my voice (and ok maybe driving a bit too fast)
10. A yoga class
According to mood, the contents of the top 10 differ. But 99 times out of 100, things that make the list are of a similar ilk.
Anyway, I hope that gives you an idea of the essence of me, but in short I guess I am a happy, outgoing and sociable mixture of fun and serious, clever and nutty, sexy and sensible - successful in my corporate life but missing a man...
If you think I'm not for you, no problem, thanks for looking and good luck in your search... If you think "yes" or "hmmm maybe..." then get in touch and let's see what happens :-)
J
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About her ideal match
I'm looking for a wickedly funny, insanely intelligent, sexy grown-up who is able to strike the tricky balances of life like being interested in a solid relationship while still able to have a good time, or being spontaneous but still dependable, or liking beer AND wine (and surely that doesn't always have to be whilst "curled up on the sofa watching a DVD"?). Someone who is confident, intelligent, articulate and witty, who can challenge my mind and hold my interest, who is strong but soft, wild but sensible, fiercely passionate but caring, likes the normal cliched stuff as well as being adventurous. And maybe who thinks their top 10 may have something in common with mine...
But that said, you really just never know do you? When you 'click' that's all that matters. That indescribable chemistry, that 'something' that means there is an instant attraction, when it feels great just to be chatting and laughing and it's all very easy. And exciting. I guess that's what I'm after, aren't we all? I make no apology for saying I want to fancy you (I'm sure you want the same?!)... after all, I want a partner who will stand the test of time and if we don't want to rip each other's clothes off now, what hope is there for the future ?!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southend-on-Sea (Leigh-on-Sea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SS9 (Leigh-on-Sea) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Sports: |
Cycling; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |