In His Own Words
About him
If you like what you see, then what's not to like? I'm very entertaining, and you'll laugh a lot. I'm well-trained; I know how to be in a loving, supportive, long-term relationship. But there's still room for you to train me some more.
What's more, your superior intellect will be respected and admired. Your expansive heart and compassion will be cherished. And your independence, strength, and achievements will be nourished and deeply appreciated.
Though I am a sports fan, invariably I'll prefer an outing with you over watching the game. I love sharing interests and activities, and in fact there's very little I'm not interested in or curious about (although I'm not much into textiles, now that I think about it). I can be passive, but when you need me the most I will not let you down. I'll pick up your Aunt Tillie at the airport at midnight, and I'll do my best to make your friends and family members feel welcome in my/our home. You won't have to worry about being controlled or belittled or invalidated. But you also don't have to worry about constantly having to take care of me; I'm pretty self-sufficient.
I'm a wonderful travel companion. I eat very healthily, so if you ever watch what you eat I won't sabotage you. I like to cuddle. I'm financially stable. I work in high-tech with a growing company
And you'll laugh a lot. I know I said that before, but it bears repeating.
And I can provide references.
About his ideal match
There is no such thing as an ideal match -- not between two human beings, anyway. In no particular order, here are my initial thoughts on what could prompt us to connect:
* The two most alluring organs in a woman's body are the brain and the heart.
* It's equally important that you care for yourself -- emotionally and physically -- as it is that you come to care for me.
* You love animals.
* You love to laugh.
* You're creative.
* You have an expansive world view.
* You are accomplished. Sure, this could mean you've won a Pulitzer or endowed a library. But it could also mean you've saved people's lives as a teacher or a volunteer or a first responder, or you're well-respected in your field, or simply that you've done a a gfeat many things
* You like going out and/or traveling.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Alameda, California, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star sign: |
Ask me later | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Jewish |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in California, United States | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 54 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Tolerance |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Depends what's in it |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Backgammon; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Curling; Hiking; Pool; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
