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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About her

Country of origin:
New Zealand
Location:
Dunedin, Otago, New Zealand
Gender:
Female
Age:
43
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
171cm (5' 7.3")
Body type:
Ask me later
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age range:
32 - 44
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I have spent a third of my life outside of New Zealand, and am grateful for the richness that different cultural perspectives have brought to my life. I like learning, conversation and reading. A sense of community is important to me, as is hospitality, and I love being part of a team. I like a balance between time spent engaging with others, and time spent pottering and reflecting. I enjoy walking & swimming to maintain some kind of fitness, and blow out the cobwebs! I love travelling to visit friends & rellies around NZ and overseas. I love to sing - in particular with others who love singing! I love (in no particular order) family reunions, nature, God, & dessert. I asked some friends how they would describe me, and this was the consensus: kind, genuine, perceptive & articulate.

About her ideal match

I would like to find a person whose integrity of character inspires respect and confidence; who is comfortable in his own skin; who believes in relationships of mutuality (i.e. not looking for a mother!); who understands the value of delayed gratification & has a commitment to his own personal growth; whose ego is in check; who has both a tender heart & inner strength, both humility & confidence, both gentleness and a spine; who has a capacity for unselfishness & devotion; who is sincere, considerate, kind, trustworthy & honest (with himself & others); who is magnanimous, and both accepting of & yet curious about others; someone I connect with emotionally, yet who does not take himself too seriously, but has a sense of levity & fun! Someone with whom I feel safe, respected, & encouraged to flourish - and whom I can utterly trust and rely on to act with my best interests at heart.

I don't think interests need to be ALL the same, but I do think it is important to have compatible values. I'm interested in meeting someone who is keen to follow Jesus, and views the spiritual life (i.e. wanting to embrace a life of alignment with the love & grace of God) as a priority for himself - in as real, practical & non-stuffy a way as possible! I'm not perfect, and I'm not looking for a perfect person - but someone who I click with, and with whom there is a mutual sense of delight, a common vision for life, and whose flaws & foibles I can live with, and vice versa! (And then there's chemistry....this could take a miracle!)

Also, I realise that healing is an ongoing process, but I am looking for someone whose heart and life are sufficiently whole, free and healed to make room for someone else.

What Her Friends Say

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More about her

Personality traits
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Honesty; Kindness
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long; Straight
Leisure & entertainment
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help; Travel
TV programmes:
Documentaries
Movie preferences:
Documentary; Drama; Romance
Sports:
Hiking; Swimming; Walking
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Once a week
Politics:
Left of centre
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious