JackJ007

61 – Bishops Stortford, Hertfordshire, England

I'm outgoing, loyal, kind and loving. I'd like to meet someone similar and see where it goes.

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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Bishops Stortford, Hertfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
61
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Grey
Eye colour:
Blue
Marital status:
Separated
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
IT / Telecoms
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district CM23 (Bishop's Stortford)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
55 - 59
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I am just over 6ft tall, have blue eyes, am outgoing, loyal, and loving. I'd like to meet someone similar and see where it goes. No rush ... it's important to me to get it right.

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Where to start ?

The above is all true but it is not as honest as it should be and so as to not hurt or risking hurting people I think it's time to open up a bit more.

I have indicated that I am separated but in truth I am in the process of separating (we live 200 hundred miles apart) and when that journey is finished then the next logical steps will follow. However before that happens I am keen to help my wife get back into the work force (sounds trivial now I type it but it's important to me). We do see each other and remain on good terms. There are no guilty parties in the split but we both recognise our mutual destination. So, until that inevitable day arrives it would not be appropriate for me to date.

So, why join a site like this? I was preparing for the day when I am free to seek a better and more loving relationship and I wanted to find which dating site would be best to use.

But then on this site I found women with smiling eyes and smiling hearts and some have become fans. It was never my intention to mislead or cause any rejection by not responding to you please.. In fact I want to mitigate any risk of hurting you by saying the things I'm saying now. I don't want to mess you around or play games. So if you are a fan, I may be in touch in the future when I feel I can do so with integrity but not before.

When that time comes I will need to meet someone with those eyes and with that certain je ne sais quoi garnered from their pictures and narrative. It will be strange at first I suspect as it has been many years since I have dated but it will be kinda exciting too.

So, keep your eyes and heart smiling as I'm sure there are better guys out there than me ;) and I wish you all the best of luck finding the person that makes you happy.

About his ideal match

Someone who is demonstrably affectionate; tactile, kind; active and fun but can also enjoy kicking back and relaxing without feeling guilty. ... er, is that 20 words yet?

More about him

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Hair style:
Disappearing
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Other
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport; Talk shows
Movie preferences:
Action; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Investing; Photography; Politics; Reading
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Disorganised
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV habits:
I watch television most days
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm separated
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Politics:
Left of centre
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Nervous; Hopeful