In Her Own Words
About her
I have reached the stage in my life when I can think about what I want rather than worry about everyone else. I am fortunate enough to have good friends, a great family and two wonderful grown up children who make me laugh with them every day and ocassionally teach me about life. Now I need to find a special man whom I can share more laugther with and who wants to explore the more adventurous side of life. I need passion both physically and emotionally but no dramas. I love to have fun with interesting and intelligent friends who bring out the best in me and I like to think I do the same for them. I keep fit, run, swim and just about will try anything once. Many say I have a young spirit and don't look my age...maybe they are being kind about the latter but I certainly agree with them about the former. I love people who are creative, different, not afraid to challenge the agreed order of things but have a respect for everyone else's differences and perspectives. I like the finer things in life it's true but I hate snobbery or arrogance in anyone. I love to travel, try new things. I still love going out with friends and hitting the dance floor. If you make me laugh I will find you attractive but chemistry is vital. I am not afraid to express myself honestly and candidly and would like to find someone who likes a woman who knows her mind and what she wants. If any of this rings true with you and you haven't been scared off, please get in touch and let's see where things take us.....oh…if you snore…we probably will only ever be friends…😊
About her ideal match
I would love someone who is young at heart but has a serious attitude to career, friends and family. I definitely need a man and not a boy masquerading as one. Someone who has a creative spirit even if their job does not reflect this. It's important that they look after themselves and care about being fit/healthy....preferably groomed to some level without being vain. Intelligent, ambitious, full of energy and positive attitude. Has good friends and healthy relationships with previous partners please. No nutty exs lurking in the background. Someone who is looking for a partner not just a part time girlfriend to fit around their busy life. Passion and has a lust for life is key. No old fogeys need apply. Not asking for much am I? it does ask for my “ideal”…someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously and can laugh at their faults as well as be proud of their achievements. So if you have energy and an adventurous spirit coupled with sagacity, get in touch.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Sri Lanka | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT1 (Kingston upon Thames) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Self-employed; Advertising / PR; Media | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly; Wild |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult |
Interests: |
Cooking; Music; Painting; Pottery; The arts |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Dance; Gymnastics; Martial arts; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Sky diving; Squash; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
