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Elfin

51 – Worcester, Worcestershire, England

Take hold tightly, let go lightly; this is one of the great secrets of felicity in love (A.R. Orage)

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Worcester, Worcestershire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
51
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
5' 2" (157cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Hazel
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; German; Japanese
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district WR5 (Worcester)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
50 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I'm small, slim and vivacious with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour. I have lots of interests which include cooking, gardening, music and amateur dramatics. Other than that, I'm a normal person full of paradoxes, strengths and weaknesses and I have faults - but I try hard to make a difference, to respect other people, and to give out to everyone I meet along my way. I'm not very ordinary.

I'm very well travelled and am also a Japanese speaker, having lived there for about two years. My degree is Japanese and I use it in the course of my work, which is very fortunate. I get to do something fun at work!

My big loves are music (listening and playing - classical) and nature. I love writing.

I have a great inadvertant sense of humour and very good comic timing!

I have unconventional looks and tastes, and I'm intelligent, curious, friendly, and, I like to think, kind and empathetic. I've been in a lot of situations in life such that nothing really shocks me and I take most things in my stride. What is important to me is genuineness, kindness, calm, and the ability to stand back and see what's really important. I'm not overly interested in money except in having enough; I'm not preoccupied with it. It is more important to try to enter in to an understanding of the other person's viewpoint.

I value integrity and humility and I hope I practise these in my life. I am attracted to unconventionality and ability to appreciate the spiritual.

About her ideal match

Laid-back, calm, with a good sense of perspective and lots of common sense! Someone patient and kind but with a good sense of humour who loves to help others and is open to new experiences and wants to share their interests. It would be lovely if you like all sorts of music and enjoy live concerts or just listening. I like eccentric. Show me something different.

I think I'm supposed to say something about roaring fires and glasses of wine....yes, that goes without saying, but I'm really looking for a connection, a meeting of minds, and I don't mind where that is. I'm happy anywhere when mind and spirit are fully engaged. An appreciation of music and poetry, an ability to see beyond what's in front of you, and an enjoyment of grappling with the great issues of life would put us on the same wavelength. I am an amateur writer and broadcaster and I use music to illustrate my words. An appreciation of that would be a plus.

My deal breaker is that I need to be able to look up to and respect any prospective partner. If your greatest instinct is for self-preservation we might not get along too well.......

More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Depends what's in it
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Hair style:
Short; Straight; Wild
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Pink
Favourite clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi
Music preferences:
Classical; Latin; Opera; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife
Movie preferences:
Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts
Sports:
Cycling; Hiking; Horse Riding; Walking
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I only eat out on special occasions
TV habits:
I prefer listening to the radio
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I read books regularly
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free; Other
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Once a week
Dream home:
Castle in Scotland
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful