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chilledbird

49 – Potters Bar (Hadley Wood), Hertfordshire, England

Relaxed and happy but missing that elusive man to chill with...he's out there somewhere

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Modified: 24 November 2016

Online: Tuesday

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Potters Bar (Hadley Wood), Hertfordshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
49
Star sign:
Cancer
Height:
5' 3" (160cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Hazel
Marital status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age range:
40 - 55
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Marital status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I have a very happy, contented existence with great children and wonderful friends (which is probably similar to most people). The only thing that is missing is a fun man to provide the bits that children and friends can't provide. I don't have huge expectations, am not high maintenance and I am not desperate. I just miss the "nice" bits of being in a relationship.

I am hugely independent and happy to stand on my own two feet....can be a problem after a few drinks and I am in stilettos but, hey, you can't be perfect all the time! I have worked hard all my life (mostly in the City), am financially astute and now trying to find a better work/ life balance.

I enjoy sport (am not very good at it though) and look after myself from a fitness perspective. I may be 49 but I don't look it and don't always act it - and at least I have been honest about my age. I work out a few times a week and run when I can find the time - not obsessed though. I can horse ride badly and ski reasonably well (read that as "I can get down most slopes but it isn't pretty") and have recently taken up tennis.

Like most people I suspect, I also enjoy lots of different types of music (I used to sing a bit and not just in the bath), the theatre, good food / wine, and travelling whenever I can. I am sociable but comfortable on my own. Happy to chat about everything and anything but just as happy curled up on the sofa in companionable silence. Black tie / welly boots - I can do both.

I have 2 sons. One is at University and the younger one (who is still at primary school) spends every other weekend with his father which gives me the freedom to do my own thing for 4 or 5 nights.....this is the bit of my life that I would like to find the right person to share it with.

Am not looking for something all consuming although that may come in time...everyone has competing priorities. It is just lovely to know that someone is there for you but you can both still have your own space as required.

About her ideal match

Good sense of humour and chilled out / sensitive when required - am not looking for a "high maintenance" man. I would like someone to be independent, know what they like /don't like and be able to stand on their own two feet.

I work hard to try to maintain a size 8 figure and I would like to be with someone who also likes to look good.....it is not vanity but just about taking pride in appearance. Maybe that makes me slightly shallow....but I don't think so.

I miss being able share a lazy Sunday brunch / lunch followed by a stomp around the countryside or along the beach with the right person..........I also miss breakfast in bed where I don't want to rush to get up........it is the simple things that can bring the greatest enjoyment.

More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Hair style:
It has its moods
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Seafood; Thai
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance
TV programmes:
Action/Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Romance
Interests:
Business news; Card games; Cooking; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts
Sports:
Chess; Football (Soccer); Golf; Horse Riding; Pool; Rugby; Running; Skiing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Family size:
I've got brothers
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Current relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Only on religious holidays
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
Right of centre
Retirement plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Curious; Optimistic