In Her Own Words
About her
I'm hoping to attract, a partner who wants a balanced, rich experience with someone who wants a 'complete' mature relationship with an open-minded intelligent, warm, female. I would like to enrich my life, by sharing interests & outlooks as well as looking forward to having new areas to explore. I enjoy life and socialise easily.
I have close links to my three children, now all parents, married with grandchildren, some involved in careers. Both of us will have ongoing contacts with families and/or close friends and maybe interest groups, which are essential to our lives and will need to be continued.
At times I’ve been married, lived abroad, divorced and been a single parent with a busy career. I had a great education which developed my love of culture, history, theatre, classical music, ballet and opera, all of which I still feed my soul.
I prefer to be outdoors, garden teas and lunches, uncrowded beaches, historic buildings, but wood stoves, more reading & Radio 3 & 4 in Winter. I read frequently, attempted watercolours, enjoy choir, play piano, but I'm only just more than a novice. I enjoy regular swimming, (a slow half a mile), gardening, walking. cooked and baked ! Years ago I managed a basic level sailing certificate, and learnt to jive - neither were really my natural habitat!
Liberal in thought, socialist (small 's'), and 'Green', interested in social affairs and politics (but not party member).. I had a career which was people centred, later on, took an academic post. These days I manage a listed building renovation, bought with friends, (think 'not so grand, Grand Designs') which I've converted into 6 flats. It gives me a great place to live.
I have always loved being in France and, Italy, Tuscan hill towns, architecture, local restaurants & trying to chat. Enjoyed cruising more than I thought, It was a 'classical music special'.
At home I dress casually - mainly jeans, but can dress up if necessary although not keen on fancy dress. My home, like me, is a work in progress!
About her ideal match
I am looking for someone with a welcoming smile, who laughs easily but knows when to take life seriously and who can enjoy an intelligent female who wants a complementary, relationship. A woman who is still a soft, warm person who will attempt to add to your life. I am looking for a relationship which hopefully might develop easily, with no pressure to either rush, or limit, what I hope might progress towards a long-term partnership with increasing commitment towards a monogamous relationship.(not sure how popular that is these days!).
Always useful to start with enough similarities to enjoy each other’s company and add to outings but it's hard, if not impossible, to be prescriptive and such a rare thing to find a close, loving partner and yet????
You will be honest, comfortable with yourself, open-hearted, loyal, good natured, flexible, generally happy, someone who has learnt from life. Not too much to ask????
Can you teach me something about the world I have yet to experience?
I have less responsibilities than at any time of my life and I hope this profile will ignite a 'spark' and you will respond.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Winchester (Kings Worthy), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Other | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SO23 (Winchester) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
66 - 76 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 6" (199cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Greying; Grey; White; Bald; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Opera |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music; Painting; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Chess; Snorkeling; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Pets (Have): |
Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |