In His Own Words
About him
Shall I be totally honest? It won’t make me very popular, but then I’m looking for just the one woman to fall in love with, not a fan club.
I’m perfectly happy with my life, happy where I am, happy with my work, happy with my health and fitness. I don’t have any “if only” in my life, no bucket list, I’m focused and usually successful, and I’m blissfully ignorant of any must/must not read/view/do, of social media, and the “public opinion".
This won’t go down too well, but it’s honest: I don’t dance, never have, never will, I can happily live without ballet and opera, and prefer local culture to London culture. Having spent years in hotels and airports, I’m not wild about travelling. But don’t mind a bit of European travelling, but prefer the UK, especially the canals and rivers. As a bit of an introvert, you won’t describe me as the heart and soul of your party (that I might try to avoid). I don’t smoke, do drugs, or drink (so I would be happy to do the driving).
On a more positive note, I’m romantic, kind, authentic, adventurous, fun-loving, positive, empathetic, healthy, fit and slim, playful, brave, affectionate, caring, and a lifelong learner. Temper- and shouting-free, a dedicated boyfriend, best friend, and lover.
I love life, I love to laugh, and I don't take myself too seriously. I support and show up for those close to me, and I practice gratitude, forgiveness, integrity, compassion. Although I still hold a German passport, I have quite a British sense of humour (that might occasionally benefit from a trigger warning).
If you love holding hands (including the dreaded and utterly disgusting "Showing affection in public”, kissing long and slow, skin contact, physical and emotional intimacy, then I’m glad you read that far. And If you can decipher sierraechoexray without blushing, if it’s something you like or could like or would like to like, then I would love to know more about you!
About his ideal match
You can find happiness in a special moment, know what you want, and what you don't want.
You are young at heart, sensual and tactile, adventurous and drama-free, open for love, and also looking for a lasting and meaningful relationship.
And I hope you like kissing!
What His Friends Say
Lara said...
Harald is one of my oldest friends, and has always been a real friend.
He is well balanced, even-tempered and never loses his cool. A truly reliable and gentle honest person who can think out of the box to find solutions to problems. Smart, interesting and kind.
He reveres the woman he loves and truly wants to make her happy. Respect, admiration and passion are underlying his understanding of a happy and loving relationship
Anne said...
Harald always gives 100% attention to whatever he does, which means when you are with him he is totally attentive. If you are the right woman for him he will give you a look that will melt you inside.
He has the stamina of a much younger man, so you will not be disappointed in any way.
He is also a good friend who will encourage you anyway he can to achieve your goals in life. I always enjoy our conversations over the phone which are fun.
We have been friends for several years and I am sure he will make the right woman very happy.
About him
Country of origin: |
Germany | |
Location: |
Reigate (Nutfield), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
German | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Denmark; Finland; France; Germany; Norway; Poland; Sweden; United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district RH1 (Redhill) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Light Brown; Red; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Danish; Finnish; German; Norwegian; Polish; Swedish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Honesty; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Motorsport; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Dancing; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |