In His Own Words
About him
I'm told I have a great sense of humour and that I'm fun to be with. I look after my body and I keep myself fit and healthy. I have good genes (my Mum lived to 99). I love doing HIIT gym classes ranging from BodyPump to Zumba and I love Dancing (especially Disco and Live Bands). I also walk/hike with several local walking groups and I'm a NT member. I have an active social life and sometimes help to organise social events but there is something missing - I'm looking for a soul mate, partner and lover. Memories mean so much more when they are shared. I like to be outdoors, but I also enjoy cosy nights in with a glass of wine watching a good film. I quite like gardening and cooking. I like to spend time in warmer climes during the winter. I especially love Sea, Sun and Sand. I worked as a scientist in the NHS for 22 years but then in 1996 I set up my own training business. Now I'm more or less retired but I have a number of successful personal development courses on the internet which take up a few hours of my time a week. I'm a lifelong non smoker. Although I used to work with doctors I now avoid them at all costs (unless they are naturopathic)!!
"Age is an issue of mind over matter – if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter" Mark Twain
All my photos are from 2023
About his ideal match
You are tactile, enjoy physical intimacy, hugs and snuggling up on the sofa. You have a great smile, a good sense of humour and we make each other laugh. You like to travel and holiday, you enjoy dancing and listening to live bands and you are happy to learn and try out new things (as am I). You are seeking an intimate relationship and not just looking for companionship. Ideally you are trim, roughly my height and a broad thinker with an open mind. You don't have to match me for fitness and health (though that would be a bonus) but you are someone who appreciates age as just a number. Ideally I'm looking for something longterm but I'm open to consider something casual for a lady that doesn't want to commit to anything at present. I have come to appreciate that 'love' is an unpredictable thing. So it's quite possible I could fall in love with you without you being anywhere near my 'ideal'
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kidderminster (Stourport-on-Severn), Worcestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district DY13 (Stourport-on-Severn) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
60 - 76 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Pink |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Singing |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Dance; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Squash; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
