In Her Own Words
About her
Hi there - nice of you to drop by!
I am an energetic, bouncy lady with a positive approach to life. For me the glass is overflowing, not just half full!
I enjoy spontaneous outings as well as planned events. I tend to be a dress down person rather than a dress up. My normal Saturday morning routine includes getting up early and going for a barefoot paddle and watch the sunrise. Not that I would insist you join me, I am also comfortable in my own skin and enjoy just being me.
I eat healthily most of the time, but enjoy a wide range of foods.
I work in IT and love the comradeship of the workplace. I also do internet marketing. When my late husband was sick, we learnt a lot about alternative health therapies, and I have continued that study. I can curl up with a good book for hours. I am a keen walker. I particularly enjoy gardens - other peoples! I love walking in the New Zealand bush. I love visiting stately homes in Britain.
I have a lovely family - living locally, independently.
I currently live in Auckland, but am willing to spend part of a year living elsewhere - Britain for preference!
About her ideal match
My ideal match is bright, warm, kind and can make me laugh! I would like someone who is enthusiastic about going places and doing new things. I used to have a boarder who would cook, clean, go for walks and enjoy 'Masterchef' with me - that was super! Ideally, I would like you to have a hobby which I may or may not be able to share, but which gives you a buzz.
I don't like swearing, so if your everyday language should be bleeped out, we would not suit.
Values are very important to me - honesty, kindness, acceptance and 'do as you would be done by'.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Auckland City (St Johns), Auckland Region, New Zealand | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Australasia; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
149cm (4' 10.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Dramas; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer programming; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Writing books |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Dance; Golf; Hiking; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |