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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: Tuesday

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
65
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Marital status:
Ask me later
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX3 (Oxford)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
56 - 70
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 5" (196cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I'm warm and intelligent , sensitive and earthy, and have lots of energy and compassion. These days I'm happy being me - I enjoy being older and more grounded in myself. My energies just now are going into simplifying my life to make more space in it for friends, cooking, grandchildren, growing veg, meditating, playing bridge, more writing and generally taking time to live in the moment. For the past years I've given too much of myself to running a project supporting families and to my writing. Now that my work is finally published I can relax again, come out of my writer's cocoon and seize the day - having said that, I've just embarked on writing something else, shorter, easier, and started a course to learn more about Family Constellations.
I also love exercise (walking anywhere but particularly around lakes and mountains), swimming (only in warm places) and yoga. I prefer being outside to inside - feeling the richness of the elements, experiencing the spaciousness of a starry sky at night.
I've led such a varied and rich life, some of it fairly conventional and some of it more in tune with the experimental lifestyles of the 70s/80s.
And me, who am I? How would my friends describe me? I asked them and felt very valued by their feedback. Of course most of it was higly complimentary (for example one said 'generous, sensitive, insightful, understanding, intelligent and has a wonderful sense of humour', others said 'poised, gentle, spiritual, kind', 'perceptive, empathetic, beautiful', ' loving, courageous, loyal, determined') and good to receive in small portions but begins to lose any meaning for me when it's all put together. What about my inevitable darker side, the bits I'd rather keep hidden? Well, I guess you'd have to know me well to get to know those bits - and I'm not going to splash them over this website!
As a summary, I choose the comments of a male friend, 'Sexy in her black jeans, laughs and cries easily, tender one, frequently wise, fun!'

About her ideal match

I'm looking for someone with an inner integrity, who is kind, creative, intelligent, loves the countryside, likes people and laughter, is self-aware and in touch with his spiritual nature (and possibly, like me, on a spiritual journey). Someone who is interested in understanding himself and how he relates to others. Someone with a mature soul who loves to read, eat (and cook?), who enjoys a certain amount of exercise (not a couch potato) and who is perhaps also practical. And someone who wants to spend time together but is also happy to spend time apart, following his own dreams.

The right person would have a sense of adventure. He might also like the idea of exploring Europe with me in my camper-van, perhaps visiting jazz festivals, warm hidden beaches... who knows?

He might well share my addiction for Nordic Noir and be happy to curl up by the wood burner with a boxed set or two. And from time to time he'd tolerate my young grandchildren.

I'd probably prefer a man who liked animals, and someone who loved to dance and who liked poetry (Adyashanti, David Whyte, Rumi and Hafiz...) would be the icing on the cake!

But ultimately it's the unique mix of the precious ingredients that give life to that cake that really count, plus the mystery of chemistry, and icing's not that good for me anyway!

More about her

Personality traits
Is the glass half full or half empty:
Half full
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rock; World
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Mystery; Self-help
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sports:
Backgammon; Badminton; Camping; Dance; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Surfing; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Yoga
More lifestyle
Time at work:
I work at home
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Animals:
I like animals
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Current relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I read books regularly
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Honesty:
Very
Feelings about using Encounters Dating:
Hopeful