In His Own Words
About him
I am considered friendly, kind, laid back, left-field, whimsical, eclectic.
I enjoy exploring places, things, people, ideas; a daydreamer with (a young) attitude. I am healthy, quite fit and domestically self-sufficient.
I love food, music, reading avidly, mindful walks, countryside/ beaches/cities/hills and small mountains, quality company and two-way conversation.
I'm fascinated by yarn and textiles - creating, handling, wearing, looking at, talking about. I have acquired a range of skills involved in textile crafts over the last 20 years - very therapeutic.
I am happiest on a steep learning curve and like a challenge - sometimes. I'm interested in art of all kinds; like to experience it with a like-minded person, especially one more knowledgeable than me ( not difficult). I find history, psychology, science, archaeology and language inspiring. Rock, EDM, folk,etc. gigs, live theatre, ballet, some classical/opera and early music recitals, galleries, are other things I take delight in, preferably with a soulmate.
I am acutely aware of my senses and my outlook on life is formed by them. For me Life is whatever your genes and environment allow you to make it, tempered by an existential awe of nature's complexity, beauty and wonder.
Outdoor activities have mainly been on hold for a few years (sadly), but I would love to start re-engaging with them.
About his ideal match
Attractive, elegant and down-to-earth. Mischievous smile and eyes.
Clothes individual, comfortable, from bohemian to conventional.
Intelligent; not easily embarrassed.
Enjoys closeness, cuddling and comfort.
Creative, imaginative, probably artistic.
Enjoys good food and cooking (something to share)
To make it work - mutual attraction, enjoying each other's company, and sharing trust, respect, admiration, empathy, patience, supportiveness - and LOVE.
It would be important to get on with each other's children and their families, if any.
Insincerity and difficulty with displaying affection would be dealbreakers.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Fareham, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
75 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SO32 (Southampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
63 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Mild; Moody; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Jazz; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Knitting; Music; Painting; Reading; Sewing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Cycling; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fast food; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Power; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |




