In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a kind, easy-going Christian lady with a love for life, laughter, and meeting new people. I enjoy dancing, traveling, going out for coffee or lunch (especially in pubs!), and having good conversations. I’m independent, always smiling, and have an adventurous spirit. I’d love to meet a caring, fun, and easygoing gentleman for friendship first—and see where it leads.
About her ideal match
I’m hoping to meet a kind, gentle-hearted Christian man—someone who shares similar values and has a love for life. A humble, well-mannered, and positive gentleman who enjoys good company, good conversation, and creating happy memories.
I’m drawn to someone who is outgoing, friendly, and fun to be around—someone who enjoys getting out and about, whether that’s for a walk, a coffee, a pub lunch, or a little adventure. I’d love to find a companion who is both emotionally grounded and light-hearted, someone who can laugh with me, talk about anything, and simply enjoy the little moments life offers.
As for looks—tall would be lovely (anywhere from around 5’8” upwards), but kindness and connection matter far more to me than height.
Above all, I’m looking for a friend first—someone who will enjoy time together, share a few laughs, and be open to where a genuine connection might lead.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Zimbabwe | |
Location: |
Reigate (Ashtead), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
60 - 72 | ||
Star sign: |
Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Generous; Loving; Outgoing; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Short; Medium; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Religious; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Internet; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Baseball; Basketball; Birdwatching; Dance; Gymnastics; Ice Skating; Kitesurfing; Rugby; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |