In Her Own Words
About her
I live with intention but definitely leave room for the magic to happen. I’ve sort of got my life together, there is always more to do. I balance structure with spontaneity - responsible, but always ready for the next adventure. Music, singing and dancing are huge for me, and I’d love a partner who feels the same. I’m a good listener - I listen to understand, not just to respond. I am restless, curious and feel like there is so much more to life than just going to work and dealing with responsibilities. I am looking for a partner who has energy and wanting to explore, either the back garden, or further afield. I’m grounded, reliable, but free-spirited enough to keep things interesting.
About her ideal match
They have their own life but don’t let structure consume. Organised enough to make plans happen, but loose enough to change them if something else comes up. Adventurous, enjoys music, dancing, singing – however badly or well. They are curious about me, the deal breaker would be someone who only talks about themselves and doesn’t show any interest in me.
They are not content with comfortable routine – they want to experience life. They have the same hunger for more, more experiences, more growth, more connection, more aliveness.
They are confident enough in themselves that they don’t need constant reassurance, but open enough to be playful and silly. Grounded when it matters, wild when it counts.
They understand that my friends matter to me and they bring their own solid relationships to the table. They are someone my friends will love and whose friends I’ll enjoy.
Essentially someone who makes me feel both safe and alive.
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About her
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Basingstoke (Hook), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English; Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district RG27 (Hook) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
58 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Virgo; Capricorn | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Dance; Hiking; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |