In His Own Words
About him
An Englishman arrives back in Wales! Moving (or just moved) to Neath. Separated and looking forward to the third phase of my life with some relish. My beautiful sons are grown up and independent, so it's mostly about me now.
I'm a young 63 (cliche alert), look after myself, try to live healthily and take plenty of exercise. I am so happy to be near the sea and also the mountains - a perfect combination. I like to smell nice and dress well, whether it is formal or casual. I do buy fairly expensive clothes (did I say I love to shop?), look after them and wear them until they practically fall off me. You'll NEVER see me in a football shirt.
I got out of corporate life five years ago and run my own sole trader consulting business which means it's just me that controls my diary which is great. I plan to slide into retirement in the next five years.
So.....phase three....whilst I love my own company, I am looking for some interesting and stimulating company, laughs, banter, outdoor and indoor fun and games.
About his ideal match
I need to spend time with someone who’s verbally, intellectually and physically stimulating. Eye contact and great conversation are such a turn on and you need to feel the same, as well as know the difference between there, their and they're.
Where it goes from there I genuinely don't know, but I am looking forward to exploring the options. I am open to a serious relationship, short-term fun, casual this or that. When you get to my age you're self-assured and confident whether in the pub, on a footpath or in bed. But still open to learning and understanding what someone else is wanting. Maybe we can teach each other a trick or two?
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Swansea (Neath), Swansea, Wales | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SA11 (Neath) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
48 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Secondary | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Jazz; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Pool; Sailing; Skiing; Snooker; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |