In Her Own Words
About her
I am an attractive divorced woman, with no children, but a loving and loyal family. I run my own business in the media, after years working in book publishing.
I am essentially a creative person with a love of the arts, theatre, cinema, music, (rock not opera) I still think Clapton is the greatest, but listen to everyone from Santana to Paulo Nutini.
I enjoy live music and still go to the odd concert.
I love the Tate Modern, and wandering round art galleries in various cities from New York to Florence.
I also love the country side, coastal marshes and bird watching, walking and cycling. I do have masses of interests.
I have spent a lot of time in SW France, which I love and now miss not having the same reason to go there. I love the food and the country side but not during in the hunting season.
At home near Colchester, I have an allotment and I do a lot of gardening. Some garden design work too.
I try and grow a proportion of my own food. Unfortunately not enough grapes for wine though. But plenty of fruit for summer puddings.
The other love of my life is sailing, I have sailed all my life on a variety of boats, my ex and I owned a yacht in France , now I sail and crew with friends, the longest trip recently was from Falmouth to North West Spain. I love sailing in the Med, France, Majorca, Elba and Corsica in the summer. Antigua and other islands for a taste of heaven in the winter,but sadly not for the last couple of years.
But hey the Backwater estuary is pretty nice.
But there is something missing in my life and that is the right man to go to the movies with, out walking by the sea or just staying in and discussing life the universe and everything. Someone to make me laugh and find joy in the world.
About her ideal match
I would like to meet an intelligent and amusing man, fun to be with, who is honest and regards loyalty, family and friendship a vital part of their lives. Someone who is happy mouching around in the city or walking in the countryside. Someone who is happy in their own skin and regards life is for living.
Someone with a variety of interests or passions and is interested in the arts, history and culture, but not in a heavy handed way. Relaxed and ready to get find and grab fun out of life.
I have spent a lot of time in SW France and would love to have time and the right person to go back there with.
I have been lucky enough to have travelled quite a bit and in out of the way places, Central and South America an especial love, I would love to meet someone to go exploring with again.
I love food and cooking, it would be great to meet someone who shares a love of good food. Mersey Island has some of the best seafood restaurants on the east coast, a real local treat.
I would love to meet someone who is sensual and loving and has a sense of fun, and a gift for grabbing the moment.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Colchester (West Mersea), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district CO5 (Colchester) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
68 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Other; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Inline / Roller skating; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |