In His Own Words
About him
They don't make 'em like me any more - and perhaps that's just as well! Seriously, though, I'm a genuinely nice guy who's taken a few wrong turns in relationships. But that doesn't mean I've become cynical - far from it. We all take wrong turns sometimes; it's how you learn from your mistakes and bounce back that matters. As someone once said - 'Life is not a problem to be solved; it's a mystery to be lived'. Life is a fantastic journey and I'm looking for an adventurous soul mate to be my travelling companion. I'm a kind, loving, spiritual man - a writer, psychotherapist and student of human nature - and I believe that understanding, forgiveness, generosity of spirit and a willingness to allow the other person to be him or herself are the keys to a great relationship. I also believe shared interests and beliefs are very important - but that doesn't mean a lack of independence and free thinking. I've had enough of fighting and point-scoring to last me a lifetime. I'm looking for someone who's soft and cuddly and gentle and compassionate and loyal and fun and feminine in the fullest meaning of that word. I place family (my two sons are the greatest blessing in my life), friends and traditional values high on my list of priorities, but I also like doing unconventional, spontaneous things, taking off at a moment's notice. I enjoy finding out what makes people tick - which goes with my professions! - and I admire those who strive to better the human condition through charitable and humanitarian works. To sum up, I'm just beginning the latest stage of my adventure here on earth - hopefully it will be the best part - and I'm looking for someone to share life's greatest experiences with - whatever they might be. Here's looking at you, kid!
About his ideal match
Someone who is affectionate, loyal, caring and feminine in the widest sense of the word. Physical attraction is not a 'must', but obviously helps, although the most important factor is how they are inside, i.e. their character. This might include qualities such as a willingness to compromise, understanding and respect for the other person, generosity of spirit, warmth, and a sense of fun and adventure.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
78 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district KT1 (Kingston upon Thames) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cycling; Tennis; Walking |
Pastimes of choice: |
Napping |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I live with them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Honesty: |
Extremely |