In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a happy, kind, creative, genuine and caring lady looking to meet someone who shares some of my interests, character traits and values, and wishes to spend quality time together.
Formerly a financial controller, and now enjoying the freedom retirement allows.
Photography is a key passion of mine, which allows me to not only visit beautiful places, but also to meet some wonderful creative people.
I love walking and hiking in North Wales, Brecon Beacons, Lake District, Yorkshire Dales to name but a few places often with my camera, and I adore the Isle of Harris and Lewis.
I also spend quality time with my grandson who is a toddler and am soon to be blessed with a new granddaughter.
I belong to a fun rock choir, volunteer when I can, and I keep fit by doing yoga and other classes at my local gym.
I also enjoy walking and belong to a walking group.
I enjoy travel, both in the UK and overseas, visiting new places and revisiting formerly visited places, soaking up the cultural and natural beauty of the area. But you won't find me lying on a beach for hours on end. Instead I'll be looking for architecture and history, exploring the landscape, and definitely trying the local food and wine delights But I’m not averse to relaxing on a beach with a good book and a long cold drink for a few hours, as well a swim in the sea!
I love to cook, and especially for my friends and family, and enjoy nothing better than when we're sitting round the table, talking for hours, and trying to do the impossible and put the world to right!
I regularly visit art and photography exhibitions, cinema, theatre, nice relaxed cafes with friends, and enjoy live music.
About her ideal match
Someone who is kind, genuine, and intelligent, and has a good sense of humour.
Someone who not only wishes to live life to the full, but who also has the time, energy and commitment to invest in a new loving relationship.
Someone who has enjoyed reading my profile, who enjoys life like I do, and who enjoys some of my interests.
Someone who is brave enough to contact me. What have you got to lose!!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Reigate, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Greek | |
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RH2 (Reigate) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
64 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Balding | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Is the glass half full or half empty: |
Half full |
Hair style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Photography; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Cycling; Dance; Hiking; Running; Sailing; Skiing; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Feelings about using Encounters Dating: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |









